Why I'm the Right Person to Deliver This Message
Most people think my relationship with discomfort started when I went blind at 21. It didn’t. It started in childhood.
I grew up with night blindness—learning the limitations of my eyesight before I understood what was happening. There was the physical discomfort of slamming into objects I couldn’t see in low light. The social discomfort of not being able to drive at night when every friend I had could. The emotional discomfort of being different in ways I couldn’t explain to anyone—because I didn’t fully understand them myself.
Then at 21, my eyesight went out completely. And the discomfort that had been a background condition of my childhood became the entire operating environment. I mourned the death of my imagined future self. Then I picked myself up and walked into university classrooms, job interviews, and billion-dollar boardrooms with a German Shepherd guide dog and nothing but grit. I traveled domestically and internationally—blind—navigating airports, client sites, and unfamiliar cities with a guide and a refusal to take the comfortable option of staying home. I dealt with the discomfort of every life essential—dating, parenting, managing a household, building relationships—without the comfort of sight.
And here’s what decades of that conditioning produced: a person who is wired to seek discomfort, not avoid it.
I learned to downhill ski at 38. I started training Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu at nearly 46. I reinvented myself at every turn—not because I’m fearless, but because discomfort had become my operating system. A lifetime of it conditioned me to recognize that the most productive thing I could do was move toward the hard thing, not away from it.
That conditioning is the foundation of this keynote. The methodology didn’t come from a single dramatic moment. It came from decades of practiced discomfort—each chapter more intense than the last, each one proving the same principle: the teams and individuals who seek discomfort outperform the ones who seek comfort. Every time.
Your team doesn’t need to go blind to develop this conditioning. But they do need a structured system for identifying where comfort has become their default—and a method for introducing productive discomfort before it stalls their growth. That’s what this keynote delivers.